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According to traditional stories of the life of the Buddha, he first decided to
leave his home and seek enlightenment after encountering the "four sights"-(I)
a sick person, (2) an old person, (3) a corpse, and (4) a world
renouncer. The first three epitomize the sufferings to which ordinary beings
are subjects and the last indicates that one can transcend them through
meditation and religious practice. The greatest problem of all is death, the
final cessation of all our hopes and dreams, our successes and failures, our
loves, hates, worries, and plans.
From its inception, Buddhism has stressed the importance of death, since
awareness of death is what prompted the Buddha to perceive the ultimate
futility of worldly concerns and pleasures. Realizing that death is inevitable
for a person who is caught up in worldly pleasures and attitudes, he resolved
to renounce the world and devote himself to finding a solution to this most
basic of existential dilemmas. After years of diligent and difficult practice
he became enlightened, and through this he transcended death. His life
provides his followers with a model to emulate, and even today Buddhist
teachers strongly advise their students to meditate on death and
impermanence, since they are powerful counteragents to short-sighted concern
with the present life and one's own transitory happiness. Buddhist teachers
also point out that according to tradition Buddha began his teaching career
discussing death and impermanence in his first sermon on the four noble truths,
and he also ended his career with teachings on death and impermanence, which
indicates how important they are in Buddhist teaching and practice.
Tibetan Buddhism places a particularly strong emphasis on instructions
concerning death, and Tibetan literature is full of admonitions to be aware of
the inevitability of death, the preciousness of the opportunities that a human
birth presents, and the great value of mindfulness of death. A person who
correctly grasps the inevitability, of death becomes more focused on
religious practice, since he or she realizes that death is inevitable, the time
of death is uncertain, and so every moment counts.
An example of this attitude can be found in the bioraphy of Milarepa, who
began his meditative practice after having killed a number of people through
black magic. The realization of his impending death and the sufferings he
would experience in his next lifetime prompted him to find a lama who could
show him a way to avert his fate. His concern with death was so great that
when he was medititing in a cave his tattered clothes fell apart, but he
decided not to mend
them, saying, "If I were to die this evening, it would be wiser to
meditate than to do this useless sewing."1
This attitude epitomizes the ideal for a Buddhist practitioner, according to
many teachers. Atisha is said to have told his students that for a person who
is unaware of death, meditation has little power, but a person who is mindful
of death and impermanence progresses steadily and makes the most of every
precious moment. A famous saying of the school he founded, the Kadampa, holds
that if one does not meditate on death in the morning, the whole morning is
wasted, if one does not meditate on death at noon, the afternoon is wasted, and
if one does not meditate on death at night, the evening is wasted.
In stark contrast to this attitude, most people frantically run after
transitory pleasures and material objects, foolishly believing that wealth,
power, friends, and family will bring lasting happiness. This is
particularly prevalent in western cultures, which emphasize superficial images
of happiness, material and sensual pleasures, and technological innovation as
avenues to fulfillment. We are taught to crave such things, but inevitably
find that the wealthy and powerful die just as surely as the poor and
powerless. We try to cover up the signs of aging through cosmetics and
surgery, and we attempt to hide the reality of death by putting makeup on
corpses to make them appear "lifelike." We are even taught to avoid discussion
of death, since this is seen as being inappropriate in polite company
and overly morbid. Instead, people tend to focus on things that turn their
attention from death and surround themselves with images of superficial
happiness.
As Dr. Richard Kalish states,
death is blasphemous and pornographic. We react to it and its symbols in the
same way that we react to pornography. We avoid it. We deny it exists. We
avert our eyes from its presence. We protect little children from observing it
and dodge their questions about it. We speak of it only in whispers. We
consider it horrible, ugly and grotesque.2
From its inception, Buddhism has taken a far different course. Anyone who has
studied with Tibetan lama has been regularly reminded of the importance
of mindfulness of death. Teachings on death and impermanence are found in
every facet of Tibetan Buddhist teaching, and any student who tries to overlook
them is soon reminded that dharma practice requires a poignant awareness of
death. Buddhist teachings emphasize the idea that although one's destiny is
always influenced by past karma, every person has the ability to exercise free
will and influence the course of both life and death. We all shape our own
destinies, and in every moment there are opportunities for spiritual
advancement. According to many Buddhist texts, death presents us with a range
of important possibilities for progress.
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Buddhist meditation texts point out that we have ample evidence of death all
around us, since everything is changing from moment to moment. A person
wishing to ponder death need not go to a cemetery or a funeral home: death is
occurring everywhere and at all times. Even the cells of our bodies are
constantly being born and dying. All of us are inexorably moving toward
physical death in every moment. Since every created thing is impermanent,
everything we see, hear, touch, taste, love, despise, or desire is in the
process of dying. There is nothing to hold onto, nothing that remains
unchanged from moment to moment, and so anyone who tries to find happiness
among transient created things is doomed to disappointment.
This transiency is the reason why we are prone to unhappiness and suffering,
since everything we desire eventually breaks down, and we often have to put up
with things that we find unpleasant. Impermanence is also essential for
liberation, since the constant changing nature of cyclic existence makes
progress possible. Every moment presents opportunity to train the mind in the
direction of enlightenment, and since there is no fixed element to personality,
every person
is constantly engaged in the process of becoming something else. We do,
of course, tend to fall into patterns of behavior, and it is all too easy to
become caught up in negative patterns, but since every moment is a rebirth,
there is always an opportunity to initiate change. A wise person, according to
Chagdud Tulku Rinpoche, understands the imminence of death and plans ahead.
Warned of a hurricane, we don't wait until the storm pounds the shore
before we start to prepare. Similarly, knowing death is looming offshore, we
shouldn't wait until it overpowers us before developing the meditation skills
necessary to achieve the great potential of the mind at the moment of
death.3
Each moment is said to give us a glimpse of the bardo (bar do,
antarabhava), the intermediate state between death and rebirth,
since every moment of mind passes away and is replaced by a successive moment.
Reflection on one's own mental processes graphically indicates the fleeting
nature of consciousness: thoughts flow along in unending succession, each one
giving way to its successor. Thoughts and emotions change in response to our
experiences and perceptions, and even our most cherished ideas and aspirations
are subject to change. Thus, for a person who has awareness of death, every
moment becomes a lesson in death and impermanence.
Our dreams also provide an opportunity for mindfulness of death. In Tibetan
Buddhist death literature it is said that at the moment of falling
asleep one experiences a moment of clear light like the one that arises
at the time of death. Moreover, the dream state is like the bardo, since in
dreams one often conceives of oneself in a body and undergoes vivid experiences
that are creations of mind, just as beings in the bardo do. Waking from
a dream is similar to rebirth, since the illusory dream body passes away
and we awaken to a new "reality." Because of these similarities, dream
yoga is said to be an important method for gaining control over the
production of mental images, a skill that is extremely useful in the
bardo.4
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A person wishing to develop mindfulness of death should first cultivate
awareness of its inevitability. Everyone who has ever lived has died,
and there is no reason to suppose that anyone presently alive will be
able to escape death. Even the buddhas, bodhisattvas, and Buddhist
saints of the past have all died, and so it should be clear to a person
who thinks on this that the same fate awaits us all.
This understanding should not result in passivity, resignation, or morbidity;
rather, it should spur us to greater diligence in religion practice.
Every moment should be viewed as being infinitely precious, and we should make
the utmost effort to use our time to the best advantage.
After making this decision, the meditator considers the uncertainty of the
time of death and decides that it might occur at any moment, which should lead
to a resolve to begin practicing dharma immediately. Practice should not be
put off until the future, but should begin right now. A person who thinks,
"I'll wait until the children are grown," "After I finish this semester I'll
begin meditating," or "I just don't have enough time right now" will probably
never get around to meditation, and even if he does, meditation will most
likely be halfhearted. A person who wishes to make real progress must feel a
strong, sense of urgency, like a person caught in a burning house looking, for
a way out.
The next stage in this process is coming to understand that at the time of
death only spiritual accomplishments will be of any worth. Material
possessions, friends and relatives, worldly acclaim and power all vanish at the
time of death, leaving nothing behind. None of these can be carried over into
the next life. Moreover, one's future birth will be determined by one's
actions in this life, and so one should resolve to practice meditation and
other religious activities diligently.
It is also important not to think that in one's next lifetime one will
necessarily be born as a human. According to Buddhist teachings on rebirth, a
human life is very rare, and it is much more likely that one will be born in
some other life situation, and if this happens one's chances for becoming aware
of the problems of cyclic existence and seeking a solution are greatly
diminished. Humans are uniquely situated in cyclic existence: we are
intelligent enough to recognize the problems and sufferings of cyclic existence
(unlike lower types of beings such as animals), and we are not so overwhelmed
by either suffering or happiness that we are blinded to the realities of cvclic
existence. A person who understands this situation should become keenly aware
of death and resolve to "extract the essence" of the present life.
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Types and Causes of Death
According to treatises on death, there are two kinds of death: (1) untimely
death, which is the result of violence or accidents, and (2) death that is the
result of the natural end of one's lifespan. The natural end
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